Sir and surname

i’ve noticed this reluctance among north indians a generation or half a generation older than me to give their first names. wonder why. so you have people introducing themselves as “R K Sharma” or even better “Mrs. R K Sharma” where R and K are the initials of the husband of the lady in question!

then, the other day i sent a mail to someone from my client (let’s call him Albert Pinto).

Dear Albert,
PFA some data. Can you do this work for me?

Regards,
Karthik

And our man replies (he’s at least 20 years older than me)

Dear Sir,
please blah blah kindly blah blah blah blah blah.

Regards,
A.S. Pinto

One conversation, several stories

mugged….

i almost got mugged yesterday. was walking home from office at 11 pm (it’s a fairly short distance and autos refuse to come, and there was a nice breeze blowing so i thought i’ll walk). just come out of an ATM after withdrawing Rs. 2000. fancy phone (Nokia 6670) hand talking to mom. laptop bag on shoulder.

two guys come on bike and say something. i think they’re asking for directions and walk on. they persist. i ignore. then one of them comes upto me and shouts something. i ignore again. my mom starts getting scared now. then i shout back at the guy. and then i realize he is asking me to give him my phone so that he could make an important call. i just continue talking to my mom. then, suddenly the guy comes towards me menacingly and tries tugging away my laptop. somehow the strap of the bag gets entangled around my arm so it sticks.

by now, there is a decent crowd around the place. the guys quickly make off on their bike!!

i’m starting to hate bombay now.

Fanaa

ok, this post has nothing to do with the movie. i had written about a year and a quarter back about what the word means and experiencing the feeling at a few “L^2” parties. i’m too lazy to link to that post but to just remind you, it’s a sufi word which refers to a state of mind where one feels detached from the world and feels one with the “chosen one” or something like that.

did experience it a couple of times during parties early last year. Even better, I spent most of September and October 2005 in that state. used to listen to Floyd 16 hours a day, play tsepak and AoE with amazing regularity, eat out on a regular basis and all that. can’t remember much else i did then.

except for a few times in the last six months (and those occasions too the feeling has lasted for just about a couple of hours) i’ve never managed to hit the state.

wonder why

The Bombay Day Travel Card

The other day I bought a 2-way ticket from Bandra to Churchgate and for a change happened to read the terms and conditions carefully. It said that I had to make the journey from Bandra to Churchgate within the next one hour. However, I could make the return journey any time till the end of the next day! And given that the tickets here aren’t gobbled up like those in London metros, and that the tickets are seldom checked, the ticket I had in my hand was in effect a one-way 2-day travelcard from Churchgate to Bandra. In other words, for the next two days I could make as many journeys as I wanted on the Western line in the direction from Churchgate to Bandra!

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restaurants in Bombay

For starters this is not a crib post. Bombay is simply an amazing place for food – if you are looking for hifunda food that is. For more analysis on that, refer this post by dhoomketu.

I am currently living alone in Bombay. Even though my mom took enough pains to teach me to cook during the break between college and work, I’m too lazy to cook. I make Nescafe for myself early in the morning, and have it with biscuits. Breakfast, lunch and tea (and some light snakes to go with tea) are provided at work. problem lies with dinner though.

I live in Bandra East, which is an extremely residential locality. And has exactly one half-decent restaurant where you can have a half-decent meal for around Rs. 50. and i am left with no choice but to go there and try eat something different every day. and my uncle who lived in Bombay tells me the situation is the same all over the place – there’s only one good “non-pseud” restaurant for every residential locality. some sort of monopoly it seems.

A far cry from Bangalore with its “darshini culture”! To remind you Darshinis are these small, but clean and good “self-service” vegetarian restaurants which serve food real cheap. And you can find them on almost every street, making life easy for the person who lives alone!

Mr Kamat or Mr Adiga, are you listening?

walking…

i like to go on long walks. with a friend, if one is available; but mostly alone. it’s typically a nice relaxing experience. gives me the chance to sometimes stop by and just observe life. gives me the chance to give some work to my legs. the chance to just daydream about whatever i want to, or whoever i want to, and make myself feel hapy. a chance to taste some roadside food. sometimes, a chance to get runover and get killed.

interestingly, while in Bangalore I prefer to walk around the residential localities of the south (Jayanagar, Banashankari, etc.) and find the business district too noisy and “trafficky”, in bombay i prefer to walk around the business area in the south and loathe walking around Bandra where i live! wonder why. probably it’s because the south has these old buildings with amazing architecture and stuff. probably because the area i live in has this huge bunch of old identical apartment blocks, which are hardly inspiring. probably because the south has more eatouts. anyways, this evening once again i’ll be taking the train journey due south, in order to go for a walk!

in this respect, the other city i’ve spent some time in of late – London – is simply amazing for walking. the entire city. not just parts of it. and the people respond to it by walking as much as possible – people don’t use their cars too much in there.

two mails i received yesterday…

Early in the morning Neha sent me this: I hope your uncanny ability to put together seemingly unrelated incidents and bring out strange, yet logical linkages between varied experiences in life, turns out to be an asset for your consulting career.

And later in the evening, Ranga sends this: Any kind of symbiotic relationship ends up being remunerative.

Profound…

blocked sites

i’m currently working out of a client site. and the client being a large organization means there are a number of websites which are blocked from here. some of them being

yahoo mail
gmail (thankfully they haven’t blocked google 😉 )
hotmail
orkut!
cricinfo!!

first time i’m seeing cricinfo being blocked! interesting stuff…