I turned twenty nine today. Yesterday to be precise; I see the clock has just ticked past midnight. And I’m sensing that my “project thirty”, where I had decided to not take up a full time job until I turn thirty and do “all the things I ever wanted to do”, is already in trouble.
Sensing that over the last two months of joblessness I hadn’t been spending my time usefully (Parkinson’s law and all that), I decided to sit down today and make a list of all those things that I’ve ever wanted to do and haven’t been able to, which I want to do before I’m thirty. It took me a couple of hours maybe, maybe a little less than that. At the end of it, I had a grand two page bullet-pointed word document to show for my efforts. To be honest, it looked rather skinny.
I started a (time) budgeting and planning exercise, and figured out how much time I would need to do all that. Apart from a few big holidays I’ve planned, I realized that the rest of the activities can actually be worked around a “normal” work schedule, as long as I don’t take up a job that will eat away all my time. Yes, the list of “things I always wanted to do” include entrepreneurship and freelancing, but again, bereft of concrete ideas I’ve started getting doubts if this is the right time to do that. Things are quite unclear right now.
I’m more open to taking up a full time job now than I was a week or so back. I need to not make the mistake again of taking up something that I’m not suited for, or something that won’t inspire me, or something that wouldn’t allow me to do the other things that I’ve wanted to do. Again, I personally don’t mind a “portfolio life” also, where I have a couple of part time gigs rather than a full time job. Ideally, something that would allow me the time and mind space to do my side projects on the side, while also generating some revenue.
I know I want to live in Bangalore. I know that I don’t want to take up an offshored job again (a mistake I’ve done twice in the past; not something I would want to repeat, ever). I have a reasonable idea about the kind of work I want to do, though I’m quite flexible about it. I want to do something that I feel for and be proud of doing – something more than just a “CMP”. And again, something that gives me the time and space to do my own things also. And yes, I know it’s going to be hard to find something to fit these constraints (Bangalore and non-offshored reduces the sample space quite a bit, I know). And I’ll continue my Project Thirty while I seek to find something on these lines, I guess.
Or maybe I’m giving up too early. Or maybe not, that I’m just being pragmatic. Maybe I’m bowing to pressures, both internal and external. Maybe I’m just taking a rational decision. Nevertheless,
I shall not take up a job that I won’t be proud doing.
I shall not take up an offshored job.
I shall not give up on the agenda of project thirty, which is quite exhaustive. It remains a priority.
I want to have a fulfilling life, and not feel like I’m wasting time.
I’m going to keep my mind sane, and try not to succumb to pressures.
6 thoughts on “Thirty to twenty nine”
more power to you!
Good luck and happy birthday !!
Outside India, it is very common to have long breaks of “joblessness”. Its only in India that we take on the pressure I think…
Good luck, SK! I think it’s just a matter of time for your capability. In fact, others should be feeling the pressure that they are not able to do what you are trying. And, almost forget – belated Happy B’day!
Belated birthday wishes. Hope you have a good year ahead.
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belated HBD! and hope you keep good at the agenda!
by the way – i met some relative of yours ( your wife’s aunt if my memory is right) at Karnataka Udyog Mitra 2 months back. I was also shown a family photo containing you. somehow we did not connect after that.
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