crazy idea that’s stemmed out of a long phone cnoversation. we were talking about the fact that a process is not worth it unless everyone involved is enjoying it.
given this, the funda of rape makes no sense at all! because there’s one party that’z clearly not enjoying it! which means that the “pleasure” that the other party gets out of the thing is only marginal, very small compared to what he’d be getting through a mutually agreed sexual intercourse.
that someone might stoop to rape someone for so little pleasure means he should be really sexually deprived indeed!